Children arrangements (where they live and how much time they spend with each parent) are decided based on the child's best interests - this is the court's paramount consideration. The law presumes that children benefit from meaningful relationships with both parents, unless there are safeguarding concerns.
Types of orders: (1) Child Arrangements Order specifying who the child lives with and spends time with (replaced old "residence" and "contact" orders). (2) Specific Issue Order - resolves specific dispute (e.g., which school, medical treatment, taking abroad). (3) Prohibited Steps Order - prevents one parent doing something (e.g., removing from UK, changing school). (4) Parental Responsibility Order - gives unmarried fathers equal legal parental responsibility.
Living arrangements: Children can live primarily with one parent (with time spent with the other), or arrangements can be shared more equally (though exactly 50/50 splits are less common than people assume). "Lives with both" orders are possible but require cooperation and proximity. The court considers: child's age and wishes (older children's views given more weight), established routine and stability, each parent's ability to meet needs, siblings staying together, proximity to school and friends, work patterns of parents, and quality of relationship with each parent.
Time spent with (contact): For the non-resident parent, typical patterns might be every other weekend plus midweek evening, or alternating weeks, or whatever suits the child and parents' circumstances. There's no "standard" arrangement - it depends on ages of children, distance between homes, work patterns, and existing routines. Contact can be supervised if there are safeguarding concerns, progressing to unsupervised as trust builds.
The court encourages parents to reach agreement through mediation, direct negotiation, or with solicitor assistance. If agreement isn't possible, CAFCASS (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) will prepare a report after meeting parents and children, visiting homes, and sometimes speaking to schools/doctors. The CAFCASS report is very influential in the court's decision.
Parental alienation (one parent undermining child's relationship with other) is taken seriously and can result in child's living arrangements being changed. Similarly, failure to comply with court orders can lead to enforcement proceedings and potential penalties including fines or change of residence.